Events & Workshops

As your Making Your Own Bed™ Sexuality and Relationship coach, I am dedicated to helping you explore physical, emotional, and pleasure-based perspectives so you can live life – and love – with greater ease, happiness, authenticity, self-expression, and success. We offer personalized workshops, seminars, and retreats.

Upcoming Workshop

Couples Connection Lab

Workshop Description

Just like maintaining good health, raising children, keeping your home and car in good running condition, your relationship needs the same type of long-term care and nurturing to thrive and grow. It’s so easy for us to make assumptions that our partners will always just be there, or compromise and ignore away the things we need and even treat each other poorly because we don’t even know where to begin when it comes to our disappointments and anger with each other.

The good news is that it’s never too late to try something different and have the closeness and intimacy that feels out of reach. At this Couples Connection Lab you’ll learn how to break free from familiar patterns and behaviors that are damaging and disconnecting as well as understand and bridge the gaps in your communication, connection, and intimacy.

You will learn practical skills and tools that will not only fit your personality type but can also be applied to your relationship immediately.

With your new takeaways from the Couples Connection Lab you will be able to have and create the connection that brings you closer than ever!

Couples will be working together in a very safe and lovely environment. Here is a brief overview of all the amazing take aways, techniques, skills, and tools that you will learn from this lab:

Awesome Arguing skills

  • Closeness exercises that will get you connected as well as flesh out how you typically respond to conflict

  • Becoming aware of and diffusing your anger bombs and triggers

  • Learn your communication pitfalls in order to bridge your communication gaps

  • Understand you and your partner’s personal limits and how to hear them and express in a connected way

Whole New Way to Connect

  • Deepening your attachments with vulnerability and empathy exercises

  • Learn how to sooth each other with loving listening

Intimacy techniques that will bring your closer than ever

  • Practice having intimate conversations that feel easy and comfortable for you

  • Learn how to give direction without ruining the mood

  • Tantalizing touch techniques that are sure to warm each other up

This lab will be held on Sat, Dec 2nd 2017
10:00am – 3:00pm PST

Tickets are $175.00 per couple and include a variety of filling and light snacks, tea and sparkling or still water. You can purchase tickets at the link below. Please feel free to contact m with any questions or concerns, Can’t wait to see you!

Making Your Own Bed – Couples Connection Lab

Past Workshops

Master Lover Mindset: For Men Who Desire To Be Better Lovers

Date: Saturday, May 20, 9:30 am – 6:00 pm

This incredible workshop is normally $525. Take advantage of Early Bird Pricing, just $425 if you register by 5/6

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Don’t Miss Out! Spaces Are Limited!

This workshop is for men who desire more. Men who want to become better lovers, dare I say “master lovers”. And men who are ready to explore their erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart. This workshop is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. It is both educational and experiential. You can expect to gain a greater acceptance of yourself as an erotic being and to discover ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others.

Overall the class was super great. I was replaying the “lessons” in my mind and, though I hadn’t recognized it at the time, the path you led us down was really one of total seduction: from communication and vulnerability, to touch, embrace, ravishment, and then pleasure.

“W”, Master Lover Mindset Participant

In This Workshop, We Will:

In the morning, we work on harnessing your erotic self and your own energy. Connecting with a partner while staying in your own desire, and helping her call up and stay in hers. In the afternoon, we build on what you learned in the morning, adding erotic skills and becoming cliterate about the female orgasm. All with the goal of increasing pleasure, for both you and your partner! Note that all exercises are done clothed and that this is a professional workshop where content is taught and skills are practiced to make your sex life what you’ve dreamed it can be. Instructors will demonstrate exercises and work one-on-one with all men, respecting all stated boundaries.


  • Introductions and Confidentiality Agreements – this is a safe space, you can ask anything you’d like, acceptance and compassion will be shown by all.

  • Discussion about a woman’s psychology around sex, information on female desire, understanding male and female stereotypes. What’s real and what isn’t.

  • Exercises like Standing Tree to help tap into your own desire, and presence exercises to learn how to better connect with a partner.

  • Understanding boundaries and how they shift. Discussion and games.

  • Touching for your own pleasure. Learn the 6 modalities of touch and how to use “outer-course” to build arousal. This is especially helpful to get out of the penetration only mindset.

  • Guided touch with feedback. Learn how to become your best erotic self by staying connected to your own desire while giving pleasure and feedback to a partner.

  • Walk towards exercise teaches you how to walk with towards a partner with your sexual energy.

  • Pin down and pin up exercises build on the walk towards, helping you land that energy appropriately so your partner will feel desired.

  • Discussion about narrating intimacy and dealing with rejection.

  • Review male anatomy slides and discuss how you feel about your cock.

  • Review female anatomy – slides, puppet and live models. Learn how to adore a pussy, what women love, how to find the clitoris (the main female sex organ), and about different types of orgasm.Experience hands-on practice with loving, honest and supportive female sex and intimacy teachers. Please join us to enhance your erotic skills in a community of men full of acceptance – and be inspired to be your best erotic self!


If you have any questions about whether this workshop is right for you, please request a 20 minute free consultation. Simply email and we will be in touch!

You can also hear us walk you through what we teach in this workshop, in an interview with T of T & A Talk Sex. Click on the below audio file to hear this riveting interview with Amy & Jackie. As we all know, practice makes perfect!

Your openness was fantastic. You helped me cross some barriers. I’ve not had a super adventurous sex life so just getting over the unease of being with different people in intimate embraces, touch, etc. was something to overcome psychologically. But we can only get over that by working, right? So that was good. It felt safe.

“W”, Master Lover Mindset participant

This workshop is taught by Jackie Meldrum and Amy Weissfeld


About Jackie

Jackie is a Sex and Relationship Coach trained in the Somatica™ Method, an interactive, experiential, body-based practice that heightens and deepens communication, connection, compassion and intimacy. Clients seek her out because they want more fulfilling relationships and sexually aware lives. If these ideas tantalize, provoke, or awaken you, you’re right where you need to be. For answers. For guidance. For exploration. For experience. For care. Making Your Own Bed™

Like so many of us, she spent most of her life in fear of losing connections and relationships for being “too much” or “not enough” of herself. As she’s moved through her own growth and training she’s learned that we are all allowed to be imperfect, emotional, and sexual. With the tools of her trade, she’s learned how to ask for what she needs and desires to have her most passionate and fulfilling connections.

We all have the same deep need to connect; the need for true intimacy, love, and attachment. We all want to be seen, heard, and desired. We want a safe space where we can be vulnerable, be too much and not enough, make mistakes, and be imperfect but still be loved and accepted. Jackie is here to help you discover your deepest satisfaction and connected awareness, with empathy and insight.

About Amy
An unabashed hedonist, Amy’s life goal is to empower people to enjoy the pleasure of their own bodies and to heal body shame.

We each have the power to transform ourselves into healthier, authentic and loving beings. Tapping into our sexual power and letting go of culturally induced body shame and repression are crucial steps, and Amy enjoys guiding women & men along the path she herself has stumbled upon.

Amy is a certified Betty Dodson Bodysex Facilitator and Orgasm Coach, Sex Educator, Mother of two, Wife, and Friend. She focuses on sex positivity and the importance of masturbation in our lives.

Core belief: Knowing yourself and your own body makes you a happier person, a better partner, and an improved lover.

She loves: Skinny dipping, laughter, time in the woods, being on the mountain, strong women, a sense of humor, dogs, adventure, intimacy, integrity and beauty of all kinds.

Master Lover Mindset – Dec 2016

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