Events & Workshops
As your Making Your Own Bed™ Sexuality and Relationship coach, I am dedicated to helping you explore physical, emotional, and pleasure-based perspectives so you can live life – and love – with greater ease, happiness, authenticity, self-expression, and success. We offer personalized workshops, seminars, and retreats.
Couples Connection Lab
Just like maintaining good health, raising children, keeping your home and car in good running condition, your relationship needs the same type of long-term care and nurturing to thrive and grow. It’s so easy for us to make assumptions that our partners will always just be there, or compromise and ignore away the things we need and even treat each other poorly because we don’t even know where to begin when it comes to our disappointments and anger with each other.
The good news is that it’s never too late to try something different and have the closeness and intimacy that feels out of reach. At this Couples Connection Lab you’ll learn how to break free from familiar patterns and behaviors that are damaging and disconnecting as well as understand and bridge the gaps in your communication, connection, and intimacy.
You will learn practical skills and tools that will not only fit your personality type but can also be applied to your relationship immediately.
With your new takeaways from the Couples Connection Lab you will be able to have and create the connection that brings you closer than ever!
Couples will be working together in a very safe and lovely environment. Here is a brief overview of all the amazing take aways, techniques, skills, and tools that you will learn from this lab:
Awesome Arguing skills
Closeness exercises that will get you connected as well as flesh out how you typically respond to conflict
Becoming aware of and diffusing your anger bombs and triggers
Learn your communication pitfalls in order to bridge your communication gaps
Understand you and your partner’s personal limits and how to hear them and express in a connected way
Whole New Way to Connect
Deepening your attachments with vulnerability and empathy exercises
Learn how to sooth each other with loving listening
Intimacy techniques that will bring your closer than ever
Practice having intimate conversations that feel easy and comfortable for you
Learn how to give direction without ruining the mood
Tantalizing touch techniques that are sure to warm each other up
This lab will be held on Sat, Dec 2nd 2017
10:00am – 3:00pm PST
Tickets are $175.00 per couple and include a variety of filling and light snacks, tea and sparkling or still water. You can purchase tickets at the link below. Please feel free to contact m with any questions or concerns, Can’t wait to see you!
Master Lover Mindset: For Men Who Desire To Be Better Lovers
This incredible workshop is normally $525. Take advantage of Early Bird Pricing, just $425 if you register by 5/6
Don’t Miss Out! Spaces Are Limited!
This workshop is for men who desire more. Men who want to become better lovers, dare I say “master lovers”. And men who are ready to explore their erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart. This workshop is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. It is both educational and experiential. You can expect to gain a greater acceptance of yourself as an erotic being and to discover ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others.
Overall the class was super great. I was replaying the “lessons” in my mind and, though I hadn’t recognized it at the time, the path you led us down was really one of total seduction: from communication and vulnerability, to touch, embrace, ravishment, and then pleasure.
–“W”, Master Lover Mindset Participant
In This Workshop, We Will:
In the morning, we work on harnessing your erotic self and your own energy. Connecting with a partner while staying in your own desire, and helping her call up and stay in hers. In the afternoon, we build on what you learned in the morning, adding erotic skills and becoming cliterate about the female orgasm. All with the goal of increasing pleasure, for both you and your partner! Note that all exercises are done clothed and that this is a professional workshop where content is taught and skills are practiced to make your sex life what you’ve dreamed it can be. Instructors will demonstrate exercises and work one-on-one with all men, respecting all stated boundaries.
Introductions and Confidentiality Agreements – this is a safe space, you can ask anything you’d like, acceptance and compassion will be shown by all.
Discussion about a woman’s psychology around sex, information on female desire, understanding male and female stereotypes. What’s real and what isn’t.
Exercises like Standing Tree to help tap into your own desire, and presence exercises to learn how to better connect with a partner.
Understanding boundaries and how they shift. Discussion and games.
Touching for your own pleasure. Learn the 6 modalities of touch and how to use “outer-course” to build arousal. This is especially helpful to get out of the penetration only mindset.
Guided touch with feedback. Learn how to become your best erotic self by staying connected to your own desire while giving pleasure and feedback to a partner.
Walk towards exercise teaches you how to walk with towards a partner with your sexual energy.
Pin down and pin up exercises build on the walk towards, helping you land that energy appropriately so your partner will feel desired.
Discussion about narrating intimacy and dealing with rejection.
Review male anatomy slides and discuss how you feel about your cock.
Review female anatomy – slides, puppet and live models. Learn how to adore a pussy, what women love, how to find the clitoris (the main female sex organ), and about different types of orgasm.Experience hands-on practice with loving, honest and supportive female sex and intimacy teachers. Please join us to enhance your erotic skills in a community of men full of acceptance – and be inspired to be your best erotic self!